Valentine’s Day Anonymous Q+A




A: What’s your favorite thing about me?

T: I can’t name just one! I love how dedicated and committed you are, your sense of humor and the funny voices you make, how you’re always open to trying new things, as well as how caring and affectionate you are. You also rank up there with my mom for one of the most selfless people I know.


A: What’s the best aspect of our relationship to you?

T: The best part of our relationship is having you to share my passions and happiness with, as well as the rough times with. I love trying new things with you, and doing things together that make our adventures and the time spent together that much more brighter and fulfilling.


A: What’s your one (or many) sexual desire(s) that we haven’t done yet in our relationship?

T: I’d like to have sex in a semi-public or public space, record a video or have a “photoshoot” of us in the nude and during sex, and take turns handcuffing each other. Those would be my top three sexual desires we haven’t tried. Yet.


A: What’s our biggest difference?

T: I think our biggest differences would stem from our childhood and the differences we had growing up when we were younger. I also think you handle stress differently (read: more effectively) than I do!


A: If we had unlimited resources, what’s the number one thing you’d like to do together?

T: It’s been a dream of mine to go to Iceland – traveling somewhere new in a place full of beautiful landscapes. I would want to stock up on film for our cameras and take you on a getaway to Iceland for a week (or longer). Either that, or visit where I used to grow up in Japan and eat all the Japanese food we could possibly imagine.



T: What were your earliest impressions of me? Do they still hold true?

A: My first impression was that you were going to be far too busy to deal with a relationship. I was used to going on first dates on OKCupid and how they resulted. You had many different goals and jobs you were related to and I felt as though you’d be too busy to see me again. I was happy you wanted to hang out again.


T: What is something sexual we’ve already tried that you like to fantasize about?

A: It’s those times that we go to erotic stores and pick up items to spice up our sex life that I fantasize about. The sexiest thing to me is that you’re interested in more than just your normal sexual experience.


T: Tell me what your dream date would look like.

A: Say it’s a day-long date. If that were the case, it would involve doing things I like to do and things you like to do. We’d start off with a matinee film screening. Followed by lunch. Then reading together. Finish with dinner and a music show you want to see. Then things not spoken about here. 🙂


T: What’s the best part about being in a relationship?

A: It’s always having someone to be there to make the long or bad days better. Anytime I see or hear from you at the end of the day makes up for any wrong that happened. I only wish that I could make you as happy as you make me.


T: What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned about being in a relationship?

A: Our relationship has taught me about how being open and comfortable with all we do is important. Previous relationships have kept certain things as being taboo or kept secret. We’re open and that’s the most important thing.

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